In Memoriam.ca - Always in our hearts

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Memorial candle

  • Shelly Coones lit a candle on 06/26/2013:
    "Ellen was a beautiful woman inside and out. You all are in our hearts."

  • Carmella Murphy lit a candle on 06/26/2013:
    "“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.” ― Thomas Campbell God Bless Mrs. I"

  • Shelby Buck lit a candle on 06/28/2013:
    "My first memory of Mrs. I is when she introduced me to the Harry Potter books, she would let me read ahead and when the series became a movie she came with us to see it. Just last year, over a dozen years since she first brought in the first book she and I raved about the wizarding world in universal and how we were both the tour guides for our families. It wasn’t just the Harry Potter series either, she brought me books from the other classrooms when I was bored with the ones in my own. She taught me patience; she had my second grade picture taped to the back of a work of art her son brought home from overseas, she saved that work for me as a graduation present, some people cannot keep gifts secret until Christmas. We read with her, baked with her and just ran around her amazing house looking at her craft supplies. Our family was special to her, I am so proud she picked us. We all thought she was so cool with her jewel tones and funky glasses, her expressions and her loudness. It never felt like she was there to work, it felt like she was there to see us, she wanted to be there at the school heart and soul. At Halloween we would have special treat bags at her house, she would ask me to help paint faces with her and got me out of the classroom whenever there was something creative and enjoyable to do around the school. The most important things I learned in school did not come from the curriculum. Mrs. I taught me that it is not only okay, but a wonderful thing to be passionate when your peers promote indifference and aloofness. It’s good to be different and to not even have a box to think outside of. She was the perfect combination of old soul and young at heart, there was no reason a six year old wouldn’t believe she was truly their friend. A capital I. A reminder of how strange and wonderful life can be, that wonderful is strange. A reminder that friendships come in all shapes and sizes .The I is a reminder to pursue your passion, and fully, what is life without passion? If it is literature then read and write whenever you can, even under your desk when you should be paying attention. If it is your gardens, make your entire community bloom. The I is an idea that being creative is not an add on, but a way of life. The I suggests that “boring” may be one of the worst adjectives in this strange, wonderful, silly life. Most of all the I is a reminder to reach out every chance you have. You have the potential to impact someone’s life, to show them something that may shape their outlook on life."

Tributes and Condolences

Leave a tribute or offer your condolences

  • A Heartfelt Tribute to Ellen Donahue-Ingraham

    Ellen Donahue-Ingraham


    "A heartfelt tribute to Ellen Donahue-Ingraham, a wonderful person who will be deeply missed."

  • My sympathy

    Denise Hawley


    "Ross and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Ellen was so talented and so caring. I am glad that I had the privilege of knowing her. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care. "

  • Dear Ross and Family

    Linda and Ag Sams


    "Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Ellen brought so many gifts to the lives of the people who knew her ... rest in peace dear Lady for we will always remember you. "

  • Radiation Therapist

    Lisa Wadden


    "I am one of the staff at the Cancer Centre who had the priviledge of meeting Ellen. Her and I got very close over the month or two that I was helping her. I am so sorry to hear the news, but will always remember her as a wonderfully happy, caring person. We had great chats, lots of laughs and shared a special bond. I'll never forget her kind words that she said about me in the QEII times. Meeting people like her makes a job like mine VERY worthwhile, and I was beyond touched with what she said about me. I will carry those words with me forever. Words can't express how much she touched me, How greatful I was for her sweet appreciation, what a lovely soul she was, and how sad I was to hear of her passing. My thoughts are with her family. She will always be remembered xo Lisa Wadden"

  • our sympathy

    Jacques and Helene Davignon


    "To Ross, Christian,Cassey,Correy,Karla,Shanon and all of Ellen's family we offer our deepest sympathy . She was a wonderful mother and grandmother and we know she will be missed. you are all in our thoughts and in our hearts . "

  • Ross and family

    Rosetta LeFort


    "Ross and family.Our sincerest condolences go out to you and your family on your loss of a wife,mother and grandmother.We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers as you face the days ahead.May God Bless you and give you strength.Rosetta and Marcel LeFort...Shannon macKinnons Mom."

  • Thinking of you

    Erica Baldwin (Donovan)


    "Ross and family, so very sorry to hear of Ellen's. passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. "

  • Mrs.

    Willena Blundon (Williams)


    "Ross and family. Please accept my condolences on your loss. Ellen was a beautiful lady inside and out.My thoughts and prayers are with you all. "

  • Sincere Sympathy

    Linda Mae MacKinnon


    "Deepest sympathies Ross and family...Ellen was well respected and adored by all who crossed her path.... from Linda M.K. and daughter Leigh Jai and Raychelle"

  • Ms.

    Sandra Usifer


    "My Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this difficult time. Sending Sincere and Heartfelt Sympathy to all of Ellen's Loved ones."

  • thinking of you all

    Naomi Stockley


    "I have many fond memories of Ellen who I was very fortunate to have as a co-worker. She was such a genuine and fun loving lady who was adored by many! I will always remember Ellen's positive energy and beautiful personality. Ellen was so proud of her children and grandchildren and her face would light up every time she spoke of her family. Thank you Ellen for all of your gifts, talents and creativity that you shared with others. To all of Ellen's family, my heart goes out to you and I send my deepest condolences. Wishing you peace and comfort in the days ahead. "

  • My deepest condolences;

    Andrea Fitzgerald


    "Ellen knew how to light up a room upon entering...she had that special quality of making every person feel unique in their own way. I simply loved being in her presence and am so thankful for having that opportunity. Big hugs to her entire family! She will never be forgotten!"

  • To Ellen's Family

    Janice Hardy-Scott


    "My deepest sympathy is sent to you all. She could simply light up a room with her smile and friendliness. Students and staff loved their Mrs I. She will fondly be remembered!"

  • QEII Foundation

    Kaylee Hake


    "I was lucky enough to meet Ellen when she shared her story with me during an interview for QEII Times and the QEII Foundation’s annual report. After only minutes of talking with Ellen I could tell she was a special lady – I could feel her smile and positive energy. We laughed a lot, and she shared stories about her life, but we mostly talked about her family, her kids, grandkids and other loved ones. She was so proud of her family and I loved listening to her words of wisdom – she reminded me a lot of my own grandmother. Although I only knew Ellen during her last few months, like most who had the pleasure of meeting her, I felt an instant connection. My thoughts are with her friends and family, who I can tell Ellen shared her most wonderful traits with. I’m so grateful I got to meet her. "

  • Campbell Ave Days

    mrs Stuart Trask


    "Our family is blessed with many happy memories of Ellen, her Mum and Dad and siblings . "

  • Our Sympathy

    Tony, Heather and Erin van Vonderen


    "Please accept our heartfelt condolences."

  • Condolance

    Marie MacDonald


    "Ross & Family: David & I send Our Deepest Sympathy & Our Thoughts & Prayers are with You & the Family at this sad time.. "

  • Condolences

    Delores Neal


    "Deepest condolences to all of Ellen's family. She always had a smile for everyone - Robert, Sput and family. "

  • Our Sincere Sympathy

    Alfred and Kathleen MacLeod


    "Ross, Ellen's family... You are in our thoughts and prayers at this time. Ellen will be remembered as being a beautiful Lady. "

  • Safe Home, Sweet Light

    Glen and Marie Malay


    "To all of Ellen's nearest and dearest,,,,,words cannot express the sorrow of our broken hearts. So, I'll borrow the line from the song (above) YOU ARE LOVE AND YOU ARE ALWAYS LOVED. Love Marie and Glen xoxo"

  • Miss Ellie

    Wendy and Allan Gibbs


    "When I worked in the library at Cabot High, I would often "drop in" on Miss Ellie on my way home. The intended "short visit" would turn into hours of non stop laughter and good storytelling...times that I cherished. I have been blessed in my life by knowing some extraordinarily wonderful women and Miss Ellie was one of them. For that, I am extremely grateful. My heart is with you all at this time...she will live on in her children and grandchildren and in our memories. Thanks Ellen. "

  • MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL

    NADINE GWINN


    ""Ross and family, so very sorry to hear of Ellen's. passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. ""

  • Our Sympathy

    Marty and Bill Gay


    "We are sorry for your loss; our thoughts are with you and your family at this time. "

  • Mrs and Mr

    Rita and Glenn King


    "Sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with you."

  • Condolences

    Herbert Seymour


    "Cousin Ross and Ellen's family: I did not know Ellen that well but my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss for you. May the peace of the Lord be with you and know that Ellen is in a better place where there is no pain or suffering."

  • Mr. & Mrs.

    Gerald and Pat Hartlen


    "Needless to say that we were very saddened to see that Ellen had lost her battle with Cancer. I was very fortunate to have had her in my room during my stay in hospital. Never knew her for very long but didn't take long to know that she was a very caring & great person. Our sincere condolences Ross to you & your family. May your many happy memories help you through this difficult time. "

  • Mr.

    Carter Ingram


    "Ross & family, so sad to hear about Ellen. Joan & I wish to express our deepest sympathy to you and family. Ellen was a wonderful and beautiful person. She will be surely missed! "

  • Shannon and Matt

    Cheryl Greer


    "Sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you at this time. xo"